The key to giving your woman toe curling orgasms is in your hands, men. Giving your woman pleasure is the ultimate in any strong, healthy sexual relationship. If she has not had an orgasm, here are three "secrets" for you to master that will give her the gratification she deserves.
Setting the scene with foreplay - Men, we women love to be wooed. We love to be touched and tasted; kissed and held. But each of us responds a bit differently to this foreplay. Don't underestimate how sensual eye contact is. Say I want you with your eyes. Study your woman; ask her if she likes something or not. Sure you want to get to the "homerun" with her getting off on an orgasm but you need to take the time to warm her up. So find out what combination of touches and scene setters she needs to get ready for love. We already know you want to get it done but she needs to be thoroughly relaxed and at the same time aroused.
Move slowly - As badly as you may want to get her going you must take it easy; going too fast can mess up her mood faster than anything. Don't rush; enjoy touching and kissing all over her body. Slowly undressing each other can be quite erotic for both of you. Stop thinking of her as a vagina and start thinking of her as something to explore. While the target is often intercourse, there is more than one way to get and give sexual pleasure. It's the difference between making love and having sex. Love making takes time. Find out what she likes and go with it.
Sensual massage - Once she is responding to your slow, deliberate touching and kissing she may already be giving you the signals to move your hands to more erotic areas: breasts or crotch. If she is sufficiently aroused, gentle manual stimulation of the clitoris may be in order. Again follow her cues. Find out what she likes; ask her, "do you like this?" Does she like her breast being fondled or licked? Each woman responds to touch and massage differently. Study her responses does she begin to moan or is she silent and pensive.
A bonus secret - Making love involves two people who want to give each other pleasure. If you plan to help her to orgasm without thought for your own pleasure, you will find your own pleasure increasing at the sight of her going off. She in turn will love to bring you to orgasm.
Master what makes your woman aroused and ready for sexual pleasure. While they make it seem so easy in the movies, learning the secrets to bringing your woman to ecstasy is something that will take time. Become the Casanova for your woman. Learn to be your woman's lover and you will find yourself experiencing true sexual bliss.
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