Saturday, October 22, 2011

Relationship Secrets - Tips on Writing a Love Letter


With Valentine's Day fast approaching, now would be a good time to write a love letter to your darling love. In this article you learn some tips that will make your love treasure this keepsake for years to come. Remember the goal of this is to have your love fall in love with you, and not fall into laughter.

Hand Write Your Love Letter On Nice Paper

Hand writing your love letter makes the letter seem more personal. Especially when it is written on nice stationary. Also make sure that you use black or brown ink. Your love letter is being written to someone special.

Create A Serene Writing Environment

Put some nice relaxing and romantic music on in the background. Dim the lights to a nice light. By doing this, it will help you get into a mood that will allow you to share your thoughts and feelings easier.

Create A Keepsake Gift

Your love will most likely keep this treasure, and look at in times of need or maybe your grandchildren will find it. One of the things that you should do is to date the letter, so that years later, when someone looks back on it, they have some time period they can associate your letter. Another trick is to put something personal in with the envelope, maybe a spray of perfume, a wax seal, petals from a flower, and the list can go on with ideas. It is about adding a personal touch.

What Should I Say In My Love Letter?

Your love letter should start with an endearing introduction. For example, My Dearest Fiona, or My Darling Patrick. You should tell your love the reason that you're writing the letter. However, you should not insult your love's feelings or yourself. Stay away from phrases like "You must think I'm crazy" or "I know you probably don't feel this way" or your message may be misunderstood.

Remember that a love letter is a letter of respect that conveys difficult to express feelings. Using poetry or lyrics in addition to, or in place of, your words is acceptable, just be sure to give credit.

Make sure that the closing is upbeat and positive, and end with something better than 'Love, Bob'. Try something like 'Forever yours' or 'All my love'. It is perfectly acceptable to be sappy.

One last note, be sure to re-read the letter before you seal everything. I would advise on taking a break from the writing table, and come back after 20 minutes.




Did you know that it is reported that more than 10,000 marriages a year are directly traceable to romances which begin during coffee breaks?

Rick Bachman is a contributing author for http://therelationshipsecrets.info/, and if you would like more FREE tips, please check out the website http://therelationshipsecrets.info/. Where we share more stories and tips like these and other things that will help spice up your relationships.




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