Wednesday, October 5, 2011

Secret Formula of Love


Is there really a secret formula for love? Many so called experts will tell you yes, but really there are a few simple things you can do to receive all the love you can handle. These are areas I believe will help you have a better, loving, relationship.

If you have ever experienced that little argument that turns into a major conflict, then you know what I am talking about. So many times we fly off the handle because we did not communicate with our partner. Conflict happens from little things like: you forgot to do something you where ask, missing an important anniversary, or being rude in front of your partner, these are just a few little things that can blow up into world war three!

How can you avoid these problems and make your relationship a loving and caring relationship? It is simple, communication. Just think if you would listen to your partner all those times that you got caught up in the moment by opening your mouth instead of gentle, calm listening. I found if you take a deep breath and open your heart and mind to try and understand your partners reason for being upset is the first step to better communicating. You also can explain to your partner why you think you might have made a mistake by telling him or her a reason.

Sometimes, a simple apology goes a long way and in the case of a man, maybe a nice bouquet of flowers with a note telling her you are sorry. People respond to simple thoughts of apology like flowers, candy, or maybe going to a movie. With our fast pace lives today we need to sit back and relax together and remember how we became lovers and talk about how we first met. It is nice if you are out together just to grasp your partners hand once in a while to show you do love them and are proud to be with them.

Many people respond to touch as an apology and this is like a silent way of communication.

Is there really a secret formula of love? I would say that you make the secret formula of love by your response to your lovers needs by communicating, caring, and apologizing. Human beings are responsive to situations by acting quickly sometimes without much or little thought which causes those uneasy moments that we would all like to forget. If you want others to think you have a secret formula of love then follow these simple guide lines and always remember to keep your communication open at all times. Rome wasn't built in a day and either are relationships. We must constantly continue to make our relationships more loving and caring. You will be amazed at how your partner will respond to you listening to him or her, not only at moments of conflict but moments they need to just vent. Remember, love brought you together and love can keep you together forever.




Jerry Standefer is a faithful family man who loves his wife showing communication skills to build his relationship and having everyday fun. He helps others with their relationship at http://learnhowtogetyourexback.org/. Learn How to Get Your Ex Back




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